A lesson after an embarrassing moment

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I followed Francis Kong ever since I heard him talk in an event in Manila 16 years ago. I always wanted to listen to him. So when an opportunity to interview him came along, I grabbed it, even though I was just starting to make videos at that time. (I didn’t have a good camera; I have no microphone, and I was only using a selfie stick.)

I sneak out from work to meet him at Emirates LitFest. The organizer told me to make my interview quick because it’s lunch break and has back-to-back talks. So after a quick chat, we started the interview. The topic was around “Passion, purpose, and productivity,” tailor-made for OFWs. It was a value-packed 12 minutes of walking and talking. I couldn’t believe that was happening.

I checked the playback right after. The video wasn’t there! I realized, I DID NOT PRESS THE RECORD BUTTON. 😨😰😱

I blacked out! Nanlumo talaga ako! It felt like the world collapsed on me. I told him that 12-minute video was not recorded.

Mr. Francis Kong was speechless and was just nicely smiling back at me. I was trying to compose myself of what to do next while my head was grinding.

So, at the height of embarrassment, I collected all my guts to asked him if we can do it again (knowing that he has to take his lunch already and prepare for the next talk).

Looking straight to my eyes, he said, “Sure! We need to do it again,” while tapping my shoulder as if he was telling me, “don’t worry young man!” – very true to his gracious character.

I was very conscious (and shaking) during the second take that I didn’t know if I was still asking the right questions. But nevertheless, the output was equally valuable, if not, more valuable.

We both ensure that the video was captured this time. 😛

To date, this vlog remains one of the most interesting conversations I have ever done, not only because of my experience but because of the value the viewers would take away from his wisdom. Thanks to his calm persona and very generous self that he was willing to repeat it with someone like me.

He even invited me to join him and his daughter Rachel for lunch. If not for an upcoming meeting at work, I would’ve joined them.

The way Mr. Francis Kong encouraged me to do it again, despite the shame and inhibitions, reminded me of a valuable lesson – people who messed up deserves another chance.

This moment signaled the beginning of my vlogging journey with gained confidence through the way Mr. Francis Kong has spoken and has modeled to me.

Here’s the video:

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Ion Gonzaga, a.k.a. "Boy Dubai" is a no-nonsense authority blogger and storyteller. He is known to "say things many people cannot say." He's also a UX designer, runner, cyclist, a big fan of basketball.

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