We’ve already seen all narratives about new beginnings and hope. But what if the new year is also about endings? What if this year is your last year?
“Are you ready to die?” 😳
I used to find this question morbid, but as I grow, I learned to look at it with a much more open mind and reflect on what this means to me. How should I live my unknown remaining days?
Will I be at peace leaving my loved ones in their current situation? I mean, I’m not talking about wealth or any material things to leave them with. I’m pondering if I have fulfilled my role in their lives the way I should. Have I been a good husband, father, or son?
⭕️ Did I spend precious time with the family
⭕️ Did I play enough peek-a-boo with the kids
⭕️ Am I at home on weekends
⭕️ Have I been with them in their milestones
⭕️ Did I make my wife feel good about her being
⭕️ Have I been a loving and helpful partner
⭕️ Is she completely happy in our marriage
Or have I been spending too much time at work, outdoors, or on my phone?
I could go on and on and on…
The thought that we could leave this earth at any point in time actually inspires me to live more intentionally putting value on things that matter most.
I also have convictions to share more testimonies of God’s goodness in our lives, and the beauty of having a relationship with Him, amidst all the challenges.
How about you? Does the thought of 2023 being your last year scare you or inspire you to live life better?
❓Would you not say sorry and ask for forgiveness?
❓Would you not give that forgiveness?
❓Would you not choose to be extra kind to anyone?
❓Would you not stop being a workaholic?
Plot twist
What if… this is not your last year, but your loved one’s? Would you not wish you have stayed more connected, and more expressive about your feelings?
Would you rather not live with peace before you rest in peace?
You may feel weird or sad about this article, but honestly, looking into this perspective gives me joy. It reminds me to be more mindful of things (not things) that are important. All of these are also notes to myself, not to scare but to be prepared… to exit with a beautiful ending.
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