Let me rephrase that a bit, “Why do Filipinos abroad prefer to mingle with fellow Filipinos?”
My friend asked me, “Why you guys always group together? Why don’t you mingle with non-Filipinos?” I agree with what he’s trying to say.
Filipinos are not really snobs.
Because of the stigma that has been stoked by the media about life overseas, particularly the tragic circumstances of some OFWs, some Filipinos may be hesitant to approach people of other nationalities.
That’s why many of us seek that instant sense of belonging. Finding a community of fellow Filipinos can help give that feeling “at home” in a foreign land. While far from absolute truth, it has become a default that we feel ‘safe‘ when we’re with our kababayan.
But more than safety, Filipinos abroad often find comfort in being around their compatriots. It’s natural in us to seek connections with those who share a common language or dialect, cultural background, or experiences.
We love exclusive chats, eating out together, do fun activities together. Hence, Pinoy mafia!
Here abroad, there’s just something special about being able to share the same humor, news (gossip), a favorite dish, or a memory with someone who understands it on a deep level.
Other nationalities find this kind of “solidarity” admirable.
While there are valid reasons to keep doing this, it is not always appreciated especially if you are in a multicultural environment – be it in the workplace, community, or event.
People of other nationalities would also love to connect with us.
Being in this space is a great opportunity to share our culture and also gain a better understanding of the world. We could develop a more meaningful view of different cultures and ways of life as well.
I don’t see why we should limit our circle to Filipinos only. For one, we should appreciate the diversity that’s already within us. You’ll be surprised to learn that we have more similarities than differences.
Keep your clubs, group, and those Pinoy lunch-outs… they’re cool. Do not, however, restrict who you connect and immerse with.
Because in reality, that is the whole core of living in a city like Dubai.
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