Why do Filipinos look younger than their age?

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Does looking young pose an advantage or disadvantage?

Every time age is talked about in the workplace, I always get the same reactions, “No way you are that old,” “You’re joking!,” or “What do you Filipinos eat that doesn’t make you age?”

Those reactions are flattering in a way. But when it comes to the workplace, youthfulness does not always get all the advantages. Some people associate youthful looks with inexperience or lack of credibility. I personally received unfavorable responses in my previous jobs when it comes to looking younger than my age.

Over the years, I’ve learned how to carry myself appropriately which will reverse the age discussion in my favor.

Here are some of them:

Dress your age

No, you don’t need to wear formal clothes to look more mature. You don’t need to change your style. Just dress smart to fit your age and style, and to align with the role that you do.

Keep a good body language

Your posture when sitting, standing and even walking, and your hand gestures tell so much about you. People perceive us based on our body language. So practice standing up straight, chin up, and shoulders back. They can help you look more confident and mature. Avoid slouching.

Develop a good speaking voice

One thing I learned is that I can change my voice. I used to have a monotonous pitchy tone. When I talk I use a lot of fillers – you know, the ah, oh, uhm, etc. That way of speaking did me more harm than good. So I made an effort to remove that habit. I observed people who I look up to and committed to changing my tone of voice. So aim to develop a pleasant, relaxed, and strong speaking voice. Having a solid voice can invalidate those “you look too young” comments.

Talk with sense

Don’t keep nodding and saying yes to everything. It would be better to speak up your thoughts when necessary. Hearing you talk can elevate people’s impression of you. But don’t just talk for the sake of talking. Talk with meaning.

While perceptions are unavoidable, at the end of the day, EMBRACE YOUR YOUTHFULNESS.

Take it as a blessing and not a curse.

Keep in mind, there are several advantages of being young too – the energy we bring, the enthusiasm, the fresh ideas, different perspectives, being advanced with tech stuff, and more.

I wouldn’t trade looking young for looking older.

Just remember, you don’t have to pretend, you just need to present yourself better.

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Interviewing Tracy McGrady in Abu Dhabi

I was still in the university when TMac is peaking in his career. My love for the game and the NBA was growing tremendously and I never imagined in my entire life that I’ll be seeing these stars in action, much more having some minutes speaking with them – Kobe, Rob Horry, Paul Pierce, and this time Tracy McGrady.

Grateful for the opportunity to have this interview and to bring you his thoughts about the NBA growth in this region.

And since the media who spoke to him before me had asked all the ‘expected questions,’ I didn’t want him to repeat himself so I asked questions related to him growing up and what these young fans of the game should develop in terms of goals and discipline.

Apologies for some parts of the video the audio from the auditorium has too loud to be edited out.

Full story about Jr. NBA League in Abu Dhabi on bxdnow.com

What if I die this year?

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We’ve already seen all narratives about new beginnings and hope. But what if the new year is also about endings? What if this year is your last year?

“Are you ready to die?” 😳

I used to find this question morbid, but as I grow, I learned to look at it with a much more open mind and reflect on what this means to me. How should I live my unknown remaining days?

Will I be at peace leaving my loved ones in their current situation? I mean, I’m not talking about wealth or any material things to leave them with. I’m pondering if I have fulfilled my role in their lives the way I should. Have I been a good husband, father, or son?

⭕️ Did I spend precious time with the family
⭕️ Did I play enough peek-a-boo with the kids
⭕️ Am I at home on weekends
⭕️ Have I been with them in their milestones
⭕️ Did I make my wife feel good about her being
⭕️ Have I been a loving and helpful partner
⭕️ Is she completely happy in our marriage

Or have I been spending too much time at work, outdoors, or on my phone?

I could go on and on and on…

The thought that we could leave this earth at any point in time actually inspires me to live more intentionally putting value on things that matter most.

I also have convictions to share more testimonies of God’s goodness in our lives, and the beauty of having a relationship with Him, amidst all the challenges.

How about you? Does the thought of 2023 being your last year scare you or inspire you to live life better?

❓Would you not say sorry and ask for forgiveness?
❓Would you not give that forgiveness?
❓Would you not choose to be extra kind to anyone?
❓Would you not stop being a workaholic?

Plot twist

What if… this is not your last year, but your loved one’s? Would you not wish you have stayed more connected, and more expressive about your feelings?

Would you rather not live with peace before you rest in peace?

You may feel weird or sad about this article, but honestly, looking into this perspective gives me joy. It reminds me to be more mindful of things (not things) that are important. All of these are also notes to myself, not to scare but to be prepared… to exit with a beautiful ending.

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Dubai offers free “Bread for All” through smart machines

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Dubai is on a roll.

The Mohammed bin Rashid Global Centre for Endowment Consultancy (MBRGCEC) has announced the launch of the Bread for All initiative that aims to help workers and those families in need by providing free bread through smart vending machines.

Locations of Bread for All machines

According to the website, the machines can be found at the following Aswaaq Mall locations across Dubai:

  1. Warqa – Algeria Street
  2. Nad Al Sheeba
  3. Umm Suqeim 3
  4. Al Barsha South 1
  5. Barsha Mart – Al Barsha South
  6. Mizhar – Al Khortum Street
  7. Nad Al Hammar
  8. Mirdif -Street 71
  9. Al Quoz 2
  10. Badaa – Al Wasl Road

The machines will also be able to collect donations from people who would like to support this initiative. You can also send your donations online.

Because of you Dubai, no one will go hungry.

Top photo from wam.ae

NBA District fan events to set to celebrate the NBA coming to the region

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  • NBA legends Chris Bosh, Vince Carter, Shaquille O’Neal, Isiah Thomas and Dominique Wilkins will have a special appearance at the fan events.
  • “NBA Night in Abu Dhabi hosted by Shaq” will celebrate first NBA games in Abu Dhabi

An immersive, interactive fan event in conjunction with The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022, will be held at Manarat Al Saadiyat in Abu Dhabi from October 5 – 9.

The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 will feature the Atlanta Hawks and the 2021 NBA champion Milwaukee Bucks playing two preseason games at Etihad Arena on Yas Island in Abu Dhabi on Thursday, October 6 and Saturday, October 8 at 8 p.m. GST, marking the league’s first games in the UAE and the Arabian Gulf.

Ideal for both those attending the games and visiting the region, NBA District will showcase the music, media and art associated with NBA culture.  Fans will be able to engage with NBA personalities from around the world, watch authentic NBA game entertainment, enjoy hands-on basketball activities, and purchase limited-edition NBA merchandise. 

Programs and activities include:

  • Performances by the Milwaukee Bucks Dunk Team and mascot, “Bango” and by the Atlanta Hawks Dance Team and mascot, “Harry the Hawk”
  • Live art performances by UAE-based artist Mr. Dripping and NBA Lab Creative Director, Billi Kid
  • Panels and workshops featuring current and former NBA players, global content creators, artists and entertainers
  • Hands-on basketball activities, including Jr. NBA clinics for boys and girls and the “NBA Ice Buckets” buzzer beater competition for a chance to win tickets to the games
  • Photo opportunities with NBA personalities and authentic NBA memorabilia, including The Larry O’Brien Trophy
  • NBA-themed exhibitions and games
  • International and traditional Emirati food and beverages
  • Limited-edition NBA apparel and merchandise

Here’s a list of the daily programming:

WhenWhat
Oct. 5 (4pm – 12 am)NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 entertainment preview, including performances by the Milwaukee Bucks and Atlanta Hawks in-game entertainment teams as well as player and legend panels 
Oct. 6 (4pm – 12 am) NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 viewing party (7pm – 12am) 
Oct. 7 (3 – 7pm) “NBA Night in Abu Dhabi hosted by Shaq,” featuring popular UAE-based DJ Bliss, the Milwaukee Bucks DJ and a headlining performance by global hip-hop star Fabolous (8pm – 1am) 
Oct. 8 (12nn – 12am)  NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 viewing party (7pm – 12am) 
Oct. 9 (12 – 10pm)NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 all-day wrap up activities 

“We are thrilled to maximise the NBA experience with NBA District, an unmissable event for fans and families alike.”

Director General for Tourism at DCT Abu Dhabi, HE Saleh Mohamed Saleh Al Geziry

“At Manarat Al Saadiyat, everyone can enjoy an immersive, exciting atmosphere watching the games live, as well as exhilarating basketball activities and entertainment acts.  Hosting NBA District as part of the region’s first NBA games is another highly memorable moment for Abu Dhabi, as we continue to attract top-tier global sports, share our warm Emirati hospitality and showcase the destination’s many exciting, inspiring and relaxing experiences with the world.”

“Whether you are new to the NBA or a passionate fan, NBA District will offer a first-of-its kind NBA experience in the heart of the city,” said NBA Head of Fan Engagement and Direct-to-Consumer for Europe and the Middle East, George Aivazoglou.  “Featuring interactive basketball activities, authentic NBA game entertainment, appearances by NBA legends and more, NBA District will be a celebration of all things NBA and the perfect backdrop to our first games in Abu Dhabi.”

Tickets

A one-day ticket for NBA District costs AED 55, while a ticket for all five days is AED 215.  Fans can purchase tickets to NBA District and The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 by visiting NBAEvents.com/AbuDhabi

Fans can also download the NBA Events App for details about appearances and special events at NBA District.  Additional events, activities and appearances will be announced prior to the event. 

Live broadcast

The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 will air live in the UAE and across the Middle East and North Africa on beIN SPORTS, The Sports Channel and NBA League Pass.

The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 are part of a ground-breaking multiyear collaboration between the NBA and DCT Abu Dhabi that earlier this year saw the launch of the first Jr. NBA Abu Dhabi League, a youth basketball league for 450 boys and girls ages 11-14 from schools across Abu Dhabi.  The collaboration also includes a variety of interactive fan events featuring appearances by current and former NBA players, a series of NBA FIT clinics promoting health and wellness, and an NBA 2K League exhibition event.  Additional programming and events around The NBA Abu Dhabi Games 2022 will be announced prior to the games.

The collaboration also sees DCT Abu Dhabi, under “Visit Abu Dhabi,” the tourism promotion initiative of the UAE’s capital city, serve as an Official Tourism Destination Partner of the NBA in the Middle East, North Africa, Europe and China.

What I thought about Katips: The Movie

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* This is not a movie review, just an honest take – as always.

I watch Katips: The Movie the other day and here are my thoughts:

  1. The film has a shaky start. The cinematography may not be that great, but it’s not that bad either.
  2. Musical score was okay in the beginning. There were a few ‘dry’ moments. It gets better and better towards the second half.
  3. Acting was amazing. Awesome casts. Most of them theatre actors.
  4. The story has a good share highs and lows. AND because of the familiarity of the plot, it is implied not to expect many surprises. Too bad the “heart” of the film was edited out. The transition could have been different had the plot twist not removed.

Nevertheless, I loved it. Natuwa, naantig, nainip, nalungkot, nanggalaiti, nanghinayang, namangha ako.

Now showing

Katips is now showing at select Vox Cinemas in the UAE.

This film may not be for everyone. But if you are willing to look at it with a critical yet practical mindset, you will see its substance – regardless of your politics.

I came with low expectation. I left with high appreciation.

Sana nawa’y “Sa gitna ng gulo, umusbong ang pag-ibig.”

How to handle Cebu Pacific’s disappointing response about missing and damaged baggage

We arrived in Manila 14th of July (that’s 13 days ago as of this writing).

We were the last to leave the baggage conveyor waiting for one more piece of luggage. Apparently, that luggage was ‘lost.’

We approached security guards at the belt area but 2 of them refused to help us. They asked us to wait some more even though there were no bags coming out anymore.

So we looked around for any Cebu Pacific staff instead. One of them walked by and we were told to approach their kiosk. We talked very kindly and decently with them albeit a very disappointing situation. We never raise our voices all throughout the conversation, even though the reporting of missing baggage itself added more hassle.

I guess I was too tired and feeling sick I didn’t have the energy to argue.

The conversation with Cebu Pacific airport personnel

As we submitted the report, they said we are entitled to receive a fee of 2,000 pesos every 24 hours that our luggage won’t get to us.

Nothing to wear

The luggage has my clothes and the kids’ stuff as well. So the next day, we bought a few clothes to wear for at least 3 days, hoping the airline would reimburse them as well (we just need to show them the receipts).

They found the luggage

Someone from Cebu Pacific called us after 24 hours to say our luggage was found and asked us to “pick it up.” I was able to arrange that it be delivered though – because that was what’s promised anyway. (I mean, why would you bother a disheartened customer even further.)

So we received the luggage within 36 hours with the zipper and the lock broken, half of the items out, and just attached to the luggage with a plastic wrap. (Thankfully) no items were missing. But the delivery didn’t say anything about the promised compensation and the damage.

Checking Cebu Pacific’s Lost Baggage Policy

To make sure we’re on the right side of the situation, I searched for their lost and damaged baggage policies and found this piece of info on their website:

Screenshot from Cebu Pacific website’s “CUSTOMER SERVICE PLAN” section
  • Delayed Baggage – Passengers must immediately file a Property Irregularity Report (PIR) within the premises of the arrival station, if baggage did not arrive in the same flight as the passenger. CEB will provide Php2,000 compensation to the passenger for every twenty-four (24) hours of delay. We will also provide a first need compensation, if passenger is not a resident at the destination.
  • Damaged Baggage – Passengers must immediately file a Property Irregularity Report (PIR) while still at the airport premises of the arrival station, if the baggage was damaged. If damage is proven not to be caused by regular wear and tear, we will compensate based on the Philippine Air Passenger Bill of Rights or the Montreal Convention.

So I reached out to a live agent via their Facebook Messenger customer support to ask about whatever happened to the supposed compensation for delayed baggage, plus that of the damage.

Apparently, there’s no other way to get in touch with them but through a chat.

Conversation with the Chat Customer Support Agent

On the first chat, the agent told me that lost baggage was not within their concern. Seriously? I told him ‘Lost Baggage’ itself is one of the options to select from when initiating a chat – how come it’s not your concern. The chat went on. I had to re-tell the story, even though a report has already been submitted. The conversation ended with an assurance that my case would be “forwarded to higher department for follow-up.” (See chat thread below).

On the second chat, I was supposed to get an update but the whole ‘short conversation’ went over an hour just for me to repeat (yes, again) my case – although it was clear that this other agent have access to my case through my report number (PIR). This agent also asked me to show a “screenshot of the promised compensation” to which I replied by quoting what they have on their own policy. I was told that the case was escalated further. Our chat ended with a promise that they’ll “reach out (to me) via email for the escalation’s feedback.”

The agent “rest assured” that the concern has been forwarded to the concerned department and it was “sent with urgency“.

The third chat was completely unhelpful. The agent told me that “the previous agent is not yet done with the escalation of your concern. I will inform her to update you through your email”. Apparently, no one else from their team can take action on older cases previously assumed by another.

That last chat ended with an apology for their slow process. What else can I say then?

Chat support transcripts

Below are the screenshots of the whole conversation with a real person. I removed the parts where I was talking to a chatbot. I’m sharing this for transparency and to possibly inform you that this is how poor their customer support is, should you need it in the future.

First chat – July 15, a day after arrival

Cebu Pacific called my brother-in-law’s number to inform us that our luggage was found. (We don’t have a Philippine number so I gave my bro-in-law’s.)

Second chat – July 18

Third chat – July 22

Why Filipino expats want OEC exit certificate scrapped?

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Gulfnews reached out to me to seek my thoughts about this Overseas Employment Certificate or OEC. Here’s what I had to say…

Filipino vlogger and social media influencer Ion Gonzaga told Gulf News: “The OEC has presented [people with] more frustrations than benefits.” He asserted: “Our UAE employment visa should be enough to validate our employment. We need proper assistance rather than a mere ‘certificate’.”

Gonzaga also criticised the “poor appointment system”, adding: “The website is poorly designed; online booking is poor; data verification is inaccurate. POLO-Dubai does not even accept cards or digital payments.

“Philippine travel tax at the airport is just around Dh115. We actually pay more for OEC and contract verification. They cost Dh92 and Dh40, respectively, plus you add the money spent going to POLO-Dubai and the time wasted in processing the request — it’s very inconvenient and more expensive.”

Barney Almazar, director at the corporate-commercial department of Gulf Law, observed: “There is no empirical data that the act of contract verification being done by the POEA can justify the curtailment of the fundamental rights of the traveller. The freedom of movement is a constitutional right, which a citizen cannot be deprived of without due pro- cess of law and only on clear and compelling grounds of na- tional security, public health and public safety.”

Suggestion
“The requirement to secure an exit pass or OEC is essentialLu an infringement on a Filipino’s right to travel,” he added.

“The government should crack down on illegal recruiters and not punish those who simply want to work abroad for their families,” he said. “The best way is to offer support to OFWs and channel resources to agen- cies based in the host countries, rather than spending on useless paperwork and bureaucracy.”

Thank you Gulf News for sharing our voice.

We tested positive for COVID in Manila

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Day 5 now

I had 2 days of terrible headaches and coughing, and the kids had a high fever for a couple of days. 

How did it happen?

I started to feel an itch on my throat before our departure to Manila. I thought it was just the typical itch I get after a full day of talking. Also, I have a 9-day negative PCR test so I didn’t take it differently. (In Dubai, the validity of a negative test result is 14 days.)

But during the flight, it got worse. I developed a bad cough and my headache got really bad.

My body grew tired of the 9-hour flight. (Too tired I didn’t have the energy to argue with the authorities about our lost baggage.)

Upon reaching home, I did a self-test and it came out negative. Since it’s negative, I went to mingle with our welcoming families over dinner. 

My condition just got worse. I decided to isolate myself in one room.

The following 24 hours gave me the most terrible headache I have ever felt. I couldn’t move and I couldn’t sleep at night — no fever — just intense headache with tears and painful coughing.

The next day, the kids got high fevers – 39 and 40C. 

We observed for a half day and when we see they were not going down, we went to the emergency room of The Medical City in Pasig. They were given tests for dengue as apparently there’s an outbreak. Results were negative. We waited for 3 hours for their fever to subside then we were sent home. 

We received our COVID test results that night. We’re all POSITIVE. 

We were told to stay isolated until 14 days (as per the hospital’s email). They did not give additional medications.

Left: Suob – inhaling steam with ginger and lemon; Right: that’s me sitting down on a chair after an IV was injected to relieve the pain. I can’t believe The Medical City has no facility for E.R. patients to lie down – especially when an IV was given.

Today I’m feeling much better, though my head is still cloudy because of the meds (and they make me sleep all day.) 

Aya’s fever is still on and off until now, and the coughing continues for Aya. Buyboy has no fever anymore.

Raqz had a minor headache and a sore throat. Yun lang. (Maharlika talaga).

Our nanny developed headaches, fever, and sore throat too.

Nothing but a grateful heart

While in this situation, we’re reminded of many things that we’re grateful for.

We can’t be thankful enough for the love of our parents and my bro-in-law Ryan. They bought us everything we needed (and wanted), did errands for us, and assisted us to and from the hospital. They also prepared all of our meals every day from breakfast, lunch, and dinner and snacks too. (Just too bad we cannot eat with them). They also gave the kids some toys to kill their boredom. (They’re really bored!)

My mom makes us salabat too which largely gives us relief.

Also thankful for our tireless nanny who stays alert and is very helpful even if she’s also sick.

Thankful for our nurse cousins who were very helpful during the time we needed guidance on medications and how to navigate through this unfamiliar COVID situation.

Thankful for our friends around the world, for your thoughtfulness, and for the food deliveries. (Hindi kami papayat nito hehe)

And of course, I’m very thankful that Raqz fights her sickness. She’s one step ahead of everything. She never looked and acted sick at all. She’s on top of everything. 

When we got the results, she told me, “Don’t worry God is with us.” Then we were reminded of God’s promise to not fear, for indeed God is with us… He will strengthen us and help us. (as written in Isaiah 41:10)

This isolation, albeit a challenging one, has been a moment of reflection and prayers. Staying positive amidst the positive, and relying on the comfort that’s only coming from the Lord our ultimate healer.

Take-away

Actually, Raqz asked me to take a PCR test before our flight, but I insisted that I was just stressed from work. Also, my gut feeling was telling me if I get positive, we cannot fly. We’ve been waiting for so long for this trip after 3 years and it would be a huge disappointment if it gets postponed. 

On second thought, if I tested positive in Dubai, yes our flight will be called off, but it would be much easier to manage the situation in Dubai since we are very familiar with the processes and facilities.

But then God is very much in control. With our decision, he allowed us to experience the love and care coming from our family. By his grace, he use our family to help us get through the situation.

Photo: That’s the view outside our room where we’re isolated. How fitting is the rainbow?

Philippine Independence Day in Dubai is a Festival in the City

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“Kahit saan mo ilagay ang Pinoy, magsasaya yan!” (Wherever you bring the Filipino, they will always find ways to be happy).

This was very much reflected as Dubai Festival City Mall kicked off the festivities last night, June 8th, as a prelude to the grand Philippine Independence Day celebration on June 12 (at Dubai World Trade Centre).

This is the second time that Dubai Festival City Mall, which has endeared itself closer to the Filipinos, is celebrating this significant occasion.

The opening ceremony featured a traditional drum and lyre performance by The Philippine School students and a showcase of cultural performances such as the MassKara Festival by Lunhaw Cultural Dance. These performances offered a glimpse into the nation’s colorful and lively festival celebrations.

“We are excited to bring the Filipino community a celebration which is representative of the multiculturalism of the UAE. Celebrating Filipino heritage, music, culture, and cuisine, the event will enable our Filipino guests to share the pride they carry towards their country with other nationalities and ethnicities in the city we all call home.”

Hayssam Hajjar, General Manager, Al-Futtaim Malls – UAE

Guests also witnessed a specially made IMAGINE show to the tune of ‘Awit ng Kabataan’. Photos of Filipino achievers – mostly the youth – and their milestones were projected on the huge facade of the Intercontinental Hotel. You can catch the 4-minute lights and fountain show until June 12. It happens every 8pm only.

Win with DFCM

From June 9 to 12, visitors will have a chance to win up to AED500 Festival City Mall Gift Cards by simply taking a photo in the photo booth and sharing it on Facebook or Instagram using the hashtags #PhilippinesAtDFCM tagging @dubaifestivalcitymall.

Here’s a glimpse of the opening ceremony: